Reader Question:
i am witnessing he approximately 90 days today. We came across on the internet and recently decided to not see other folks. We actually enjoy both and beginning to present our individuals.
He’s nevertheless effective regarding the dating website we met from. The guy admitted to using casual discussions nonetheless regularly. I am not a jealous or vulnerable individual, but it’s method of hit me personally completely wrong.
Should this bother myself?
-Ayra (New York)
Dr. Wendy Walsh’s Response:
Ayra,
Should this bother you? Positively! He’s still playing industry on the internet and seeking a bigger, better price.
I believe you will want to call their bluff. Make sure he understands his terms of exclusivity imply nothing if they are nonetheless single using the internet. Declare that you two transferred to quickly and tell him you are thrilled to go back on the internet too, if the guy believes keeping unmarried is ideal.
Oh, and one more thing, prevent having sexual intercourse with him.
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